AVOID Single Mothers
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ESSAY: WHY REAL MEN AVOID SINGLE MOTHERS.


1. Never Available.

A single Mother’s schedule is never open. Single mothers are the kind of women to always cancel dates at the last minute. Having a relationship with her is hard because she’s never there. Having a relationship with her is hard because she’s never there. Having a relationship with her is hard because she’s never there. Something always gets in the way of a man spending time with her.

2. YOU are NOT a priority.

Any man with a single mother winds up a fifth stringer in a relationship. Usually, in a relationship, the man winds up DEAD LAST behind her kids, her job, the car, the kitchen sink, and the stopped-up toilet. Even the dog gets more attention and affection than a man involved with a single mother. And he rarely ever gets called up to play.
 

3. Thinks the world revolves around HER and ONLY HER.

A single mother is one of the biggest narcissists on the dating scene. She often thinks that a man has to drop everything in his life to be part of her and her kids. He’s just supposed to be there to give her everything she wants in life. They’re so selfish they don’t believe a man has needs, wants or a life of his own.

4. Emotionally Unavailable- 

 Most Single mothers cannot form an intimate connection with a man because their feelings are invested in other people. Usually, her primary focus is on her children.
 
In addition to dedicating themselves to their children, most single mothers have given their hearts to someone else- their children’s father. There will always be some distance between a single mother and the new man in her life. And those feelings she still has for him will always prevent her from getting closer to you.
 

5. The ex/ Baby Daddy is ALWAYS THERE.

A man just doesn’t deal with a single mother. He deals with her ex or her baby daddy as well. And this guy is always hovering around like a helicopter looking to c*ckblock you. Some of these guys still think they can get back with her. Others just don’t want to see her happy. A lot of these dudes want to f!  get over her.
 
Seriously, it’s a game they’re playing with each other. And they’ll be playing that game with each other until their children turn 18 or 21. It’s just not worth dealing with this fool and his insecure bullshyt. Head for the exit.

6. The kids are working AGAINST YOU 

When dealing with a single mother, you also deal with Kids. Kids,, still in their little hearts, think that Dad will return and love them.
Seriously, GET THE HELL OUT OF THERE.
 

7. Those kids will HATE YOU.

They will act out to keep you from getting closer to mommy. They will make accusations against you to get you in trouble. Again, it’s not worth dealing with the bullsh*t to get with a female. There are four billion women in the world. You can find a quality female who doesn’t carry all this baggage or give you this much grief.
 

8. Entitled attitude 


Single mothers think the world owes them EVERYTHING because they had a baby out of wedlock.
And she thinks she’s the one who deserves the best. Even though she’s usually collecting welfare, food stamps, or child support, she’s still supposed to be treated like a queen because she popped a kid out of her v*gina.
 
In their deluded, distorted vision of the world, Men are still supposed to take her out to the finest restaurants and buy them lots of expensive stuff. And he’s supposed to take care of her kids, too, buying them whatever they want while taking a blind eye to their bad behaviour.
 

9. Distorted self-image 

Single mothers still think she’s as sexy as before they had a baby. Only she doesn’t understand how her body has changed in some cases for the worse.
 
Single mothers are the type to try to squeeze themselves into sexy outfits like low-rise jeans and cropped T-shirts to show off their belly button, not seeing the muffin top and stretch marks squeezing out over the top of their pants. They’re the type to stuff themselves into slinky spandex dresses (unaware of that gut and the cellulite on their asses) and head out to the club. She thinks men are supposed to run up to her, offering to buy her drinks. And because a few thirsty simps step toward her, she thinks she’s still got it. But the only people who want what she has to offer are scavengers at the bottom of the social scene.
 

10. Always the victim.

Single Mothers never take responsibility for their actions. They never take any time to self-examine or make any efforts to change their lives. They never take any time to self-examine or make any efforts to change their lives. They never take any time to self-examine or make any efforts to change their lives. Their situation is always the fault of that “no good man”, “these damn kids”, their mother or someone else. ’re still looking for some Rich, Incredibly Handsome Man to sweep her off her feet and take her out of the troubling situation.

11. Jekyll & Hyde Personality.

A single mother will be the sweetest thing when a man first dates her, but she turns into a NUTJOB a few months into a relationship. During that meeting, she’ll yell at and bully them into getting them to act right while praising a man like he’s an angel. A man will usually see glimpses of this when she chastises her kids when he first meets them.

It’s all an act. Heaven will turn into Hell around the six-month mark.
 
Once a single mother gets a man settled into her life, it’s not common for her to start verbally abusing him and mocking him as she projects all that pent-up rage from those previous failed relationships onto him. And it’s usually around this point that most men realize why this woman is single and why it’s time for him to hit the exit door.
 

12. Drama Queen.

There’s never a good day in the life of a single mother because there’s always some new crisis about to emerge in her life. There’s never a good day in the life of a single mother because there’s always some new crisis about to appear in her life. There’s never a good day in the life of a single mother because there’s always some new crisis about to emerge in her life. Because a single mother always sees herself as a victim of society, she’s always talking about her problems. And she always has new trouble bringing everyone.

Single mothers need drama that makes them feel important. It makes people pay attention to them. And when Captain-Save-A-Hoe™ is doting on them and trying to solve their problems, they feel an artificial sense of value. They need that value to deflect people’s attention from how pathetic their lives actually are.
 
Manipulative In most cases, a single mother has no interest in the man she’s dating. In many issues, she’s just using a guy as a pawn.
 

13. In most cases, she’s dating to make her Baby Daddy jealous.

Deep down in her heart, she believes that if she’s seen with someone else who sees her as valuable, he’ll see her as practical and take her back.
In other cases, when she’s not trying to get a rise out of Baby Daddy, she’s playing the sympathy card™, using a guy to get gifts, free dinners and free drinks out of him. To a single mother, The men in her life are just human ATM machines where she whispers a sweet nothing in his ear like a PIN number, and money comes out of his wallet.
 
And because she’s a drama queen who loves to play the victim, the Single mother plays to men’s emotions to get them to react in the way she wants. It’s not common for a single mother to tell her man about her baby daddy so he can go f! Get him. Or pit two baby daddies against each other. Many men have wound up dead or in prison because a single Mother played the victim card™.
 

14. Dishonest.

A single mother is a LIAR. It’s how she gets what she wants. It’s how she manipulates people. It’s how she takes care of her kids. It’s how she survives in this world.
Single mothers lie. They lie to men about their age, their height, their weight, how many kids they have, and the job they do. And they LIE ALL THE TIME. And they LIE ALL THE TIME. And they LIE ALL THE TIME.

On top of the lies they tell others, They lie to themselves. They lie about how beautiful they are. They lie, telling themselves they’re still a catch. They lie, telling themselves they still have a chance with a good man. They lie, telling themselves that their lives will be happily ever after.
 

15. Carries Baggage, baggage and more baggage 

A single mother has more issues than Time and Newsweek combined.
Brothers, don’t let yourself get sized up for the white jacket and the bow tie! Brothers, don’t let yourself get sized up for the white coat and the bow tie! Brothers, don’t let yourself get sized up for the white jacket and the bow tie! And when she’s looking for a man, she’s not looking for an equal caring partner. She’s looking for a Pullman Porter™ to care for her kids and clean up her messes with her children’s father.

Anyway, dealing with a single mother is like walking through a minefield. After several months of being involved with her, it leaves a man anxious and tense because he doesn’t know where to step that won’t lead to an explosion that k!  ll him.
 

That’s why Real Men avoid single mothers like a disease.

Real men understand life is too short to cope with someone’s drama eir emotional baggage. We only have a limited time on God’s Earth, and who wants to spend it being a Pullman Porter cleaning up someone else’s messes. As I stated in a previous blog, let that woman take her run over Jimmy Choos and clean up her mess. She made her bed, now let her lie in the wet spot.
Don’t date single mothers;; don’t waste your time with them. There are four billion women in this world. If you’re patient, you’ll find a good one.